尊重

September 27th, 2008

试问每位情侣除了非常爱身边的那一位? 你还能给他些什么?

两人之间是否都存在着尊重

很可惜,不是在每个情侣间,尊重都显得举足轻重。

就刚刚, 一位刚吵架完的情侣, 非常不尊重的, 男孩大声地呼喊其女孩的名字并叫她把电话递给他(女方当时是和某人说话,并有意思叫对方前来接他, 因为她不想和男孩有争执)

但是男孩语气及鲁莽的呼喊到:拿来!拿来 ! 意味着要和里头的人解释只是小事情/ 情侣之间吵架, 事情很琐碎罢了。

我不管他们之前发生了什么事!

男孩难道不懂什么叫做尊重吗?

难道电话里头的人会听不见吗?

电话里头的人物很有可能是任何人, 自己的妈妈,兄弟姐妹?

男孩就算再多努力解释辨别也好, 话都被电话里头的人听见了。 如果这时真的是女孩亲人, 怎叫他们不伤心?

我们不谈面子, 当这种事情发生了, 难道心理马上就能恢复过来。

咱不是在为自己的恋情刨削着吗?

情趣有时要看情况。

类似这种事发生多了, 好则让双方更了解对方, 坏则反目成凑, 又一对苦命鸳鸯。

其实啊

这里指的尊重不是无条件的纵容对方, 毫无主见的让对方呵喝, 只是有时一是的尊重真的会让对方更感觉到你的重要。 情侣除了信任, 尊重也扮演非常举足轻重的角色。

学会尊重, 让彼此感觉到更加关怀备至。

多了一份尊重, 了解。自然就少了一份争执, 感情,甜蜜指数也随之增加。

愿您学会尊重, 让身边的人感觉自在, 快乐^^

别怀疑, 是我(sai) 写的……..

F.E.E.L.I.N.G

September 27th, 2008

It is a silent night where there is few car sweeping across the road.
Of course i was driving,
every car seem really enjoy their driving tonight
No one cutting queue,
Everyone follows the law non usually, stick to the lane!!!
Ops!
I just realize….Raya is in the corner^^ >.<
So our very dutiful kawan- Police will do their petrol more often than usual to keep our place safely.
Hahahah~
Thats hilarious and sound reli teasing …haha

Well my story was not about to criticise our KAWAN like other does,
I dont wish to instigating any sensitive issue right here like those politician does to their BLOG until ended with ISA or get penalize by law! ! >.< T_T
Sigh… By the way I stil wish our Malaysia can get just little simplier and happier.
Since our Ah Pak is going to be gone off ,
I think we apart farer with term of properous…..

Yet, yet, yet…..
Im not going to finished up my story just like that
I think…..
It should be sound more romantic, passionate, touching and so on )^^(
Hahaha
But sadly my english was reli that meager until i could not manage to write a better story
Please do be patient lo, while reading it ok…..

Sigh… when I was driving just now,
suddenly I think of my Father.
Who always is a Hero for me,
especially when he driving car or bus.
He was a bus driver !
He could be the best driver within everyone’s heart ( but he smoke alot, thats I damn freakin HATE it)
I really mean it,
I stil remember when i was in primary school,
buses are not allow to driven along in taman ( terrace house area)
It could be kena SAMAN tau~
But daddy will never bother it just because he worry bout us while walking along the long long street( about 1km) to reach home…..
He could be the most caring driver where he not necessary to take any passenger after 6pm but he does, although sometime He need to take longer road and time like usual to reach home…..

Why I said he can be the car hero until he is so good in driving(for me),
Is really stable,
no emergency break, no breakin rules(except the above that i mentioned)

One word
Is reli Comfort and secure sitting beside him.

Unlike one of my friend does who his name was starting v D, where always drivin like a mad cow, tailgate the other, and always like to emergency break until all the girl got SCREAM OUT : ARGH!!!!!!!!

probably he does like girl screaming that way,

He is kind pervert and maniac !…hahahha >.<

hm…I was so hoping I could drive like he does….
Dad, where you been this year,
is been very long time since last time you appear in my dream
It last within second and end up with I woke up from bed.
I try so hard to thinking about you all the time so I could met you again in my dream
But nothing came but disappointment….

I truly wish time could revearse just like I clicking the revearse tab so I can meet you and give you the deepest hug again that time in 1996/7…..
I will never forget the time when I hug you
your eyes sparkling and redish
I really could feel the love and the wholehearted protection from you eventhough that time I just standard 4 or 5….
Is really amazing for me, Is really comfortable
Those feeling
strike straight in to my mind
Heart

and Soul

But cruely it wont be happend again……

C’me on daddy
are you that busy doing your stuff ‘there’ until you got no time to visit me?
Or there got much more angels who is prettier and sexy than mom.
If so, i have to ask u to step off
No one will again falling with u : Uncle!
Just kidding
I knew you wont mind it, as you doing the same thing when you around us.

Anyway,
anyway,
anyway……

Hope you got your own new life,
and happily with it
Mom r fine
Everyone was good
healthy
hehe
But frankly
hope to see you o
no matter in where…..

Come on
gv me a miracle like those story always do ok!
promise? ………..^^

Catch ya~

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April 12th, 2007

when cigaratte decided to gv his heart to match, he ’s already destined to b HURT

Don try to vindicate or confess ur love to some one easily,

once u hv made a promises on it is just like a loan that u need to pay it back.

MOuse said " I love YOu’ to the cat, but Cat answered "leave me alone…mouse leave with heart broken. But at the end no ones know  cat drop its tears too.

actually, There is a LOVE called abandon.

Women change their emotion easily, but what about Man? is HEart!

In LOve field, noone should feel sorry or being unworthhy to anyone ,there is just got u failed @ do not know how to appreciate someone……

When we really met true LOve

grab it tight

Don let it slip away from our hand

whoe tight both feeling .

but not makes both relationship become fast knot

bcuz it is hard to meet True love .

sigh!

April 12th, 2007

sigh

recently

i cant do thing perfectly,

i wish i could

apparently i failed to do so, i hv no confidence in all sort of thing.

I started with  enthusiasticly, ardently, earnestly.

But when i meet sum of the obstacle , problem, or ,mistaken at d path that i walk tru noe,

i screwed up!

i’m not dare to step even half more inches into it.

I feel to lock myself again in d blackest room of this world. Everyone will not c me

And  forgot those task that i”v failed to make it by the way i said i able to accomplished it confidently.

Oh God

I should not sound so arrogant at d first time right…

Thre is no way back or other option,

could You help me this time

I need confidence…….

some wisdom…….

some inspiration….

n some luck more if u feel it is worth n faith to me….

I cant do thing v no confident v no supportion v no faith at all.

For now, my task seem harder than climbling up to d sky, reaching for the moon…..

I really dono whether i can make it this time or just cut off my thought now for save me from tears, disappointment,n sighness……

if onli i could advise myself "keep holding on" but is hard

after 2 or  3 minutes

i started to think to bad site already.

If i reli lose my promises this time….HOw?

i absolutely terrified when i think of that scene…..

I know many of them will comes up with sad face n end up with disappoinment n lost confident on me…They will started hv no faith on what i gonna do next. Hence, end up with no 1 support me or give their helping hand no matter in what i wanna do next even i was fucking serious at that time…..

Once u did wrong u ‘ll b blame for forever when d same situation came….

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HELP HEP HELP !!!!!!!!!!!

ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really scare…….T_T

I….

January 22nd, 2007

What do you think about me?

Can u classify me in one word?

How many grade i can get in your heart?

Do i brigthen your day up?

Do you happy to see me?

Do you feel comfortable when i was around?

I always thinking that everyone was so like to b my friend

but r they?

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January 17th, 2007

why human needs LOVE

What i mean is the relationship that dwelling in 2 person

a man n a women~

Is it people would die if they short of LOVE?

LOVE hurts,

but why so many people stil immerse their head into it.

For now there’s no such thing gonna happen on me,

I knew I will get hurts by LOVE someday somehow.

So,I better dont touch  or think about it.

because LOVE is not just one side

but another side as well…..

That’s why I knew, I will not get any winning chance on this field

And is also too hard for me to try,start on or challenge LOVE,

But dont you all think that i hated all d couples around me,

of course I’m not.

But all i want to tell u all is

Appreciate what u have now so to the person that u always holding now,

The rear side of LOVE is HATE.

When LOVE turns to HATE

thing goes terribly tragic that one cannot bear to look at it,

And  mull over n over again when u get ready for LOVE

Dont makes any statement or decision that u may regret,

And Don let anyone get hurts on this LOVE field  .

Don’t you hesitate….

It is written by me…..

………a-sai…………….

2007.JAN.18 @ 01: 29 AM

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December 25th, 2006

Keep holding on ,sai

u can make it through

Just fight it

keep holding on,

Well i think i onli can concerned myself now using this word,

What will happend tomorrow,

Every1 get their job besides me,

Those feeling,

No ones can understand,

Feel like a maggot that onli know how eat,

That never give any contributes to anything,

Sigh….

Feel so Unwell n Unhelp

Lost….

Desperately……

Sad……………….

Moody………………..

Is ok,

rain will stop n sun will rise again no matter how,

Just depends on the time onli jek

malacca flood also pull out edi la,

i think mine also will evacuate soon …..

But for now

Stil in -ve100 mood T_T

I hate my life

December 25th, 2006

new year coming, but then i stil not getting any job,

What happened to me?

It is bcuz of my hair colour n gave ppl those bad impression,

I keep asking myself these day,

I really moody on these thing,

But what can i do

all i can do is just wait n c

i sick of it…….

No one can help beside myself.

PLease god,

lend me ur hand n power,

give me a chance,

I really tired of all this thing

Wish me luck on tomorrow

My mood now(%) : -ve 100

Merry X’mas

December 20th, 2006

Christmas is around the corner,so to the new year as well

is also  time to say good bye to 2006.

Look back on what we did within this year,

is it everyone achieved what they want?

Or you doing nothing n delayed all the thing in your hand to the next coming year?

or be perplexed in which path should you go thru after u get the result of examination like stpm or stm?

Anyway well thinking or worried bout all this thing why not just relax and enjoy first in this coming xmas n new year^^

well asai here wishing all d friensterers with many good wishes for the holidays and the coming year…

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December 20th, 2006

Every Day i woke up in the morning,

the first thing that playing in my mind is,

Hmm…..what mask should i put on today,

is it a smile face mask or an irretating face to ruins all the people mood around me, a sad face??

or in other word put on a fake mask that hiding our true identity n personality…..

No matter how true we are, we stil put on mask everyday,

bcuz this is life,

we cant always do whatever u like

although u really frustrated with someone attitude, but u stil hv to pretend n smile at that person like normal bcuz u want to avoid from a fight.

Like a promoter in a shop, they hv to smile all the time just to earn a meal in life…..

BUt think from bright side

we doing all this although we’ll get hurt sumtime or being offensed

but then our main point is………..?

i also not sure what to write next.

Let me think bout it first

It is extremely hard if u want me to shout it out using english.